Retelling Tales

I've yet to adjust to the feeling of repeating stories. Whether it's writing it in an email first and retelling it here or writing about it here and then bringing it up in a conversation later, it still feels weird. It's as though whoever hears or reads it first has exclusive rights to it and it would be a betrayal to tell anyone else.

The whole thing is ridiculous. You would think after doing this for nearly four years, I'd be over it, but I'm not. I don't know how many times I have to tell myself that it's okay to repeat stories. I should probably clarify that I'm not talking about stories that are result of personal drama or violate privacy. I'm talking about funny, day-in-the-life anecdotes or observations.

I imagine the best conversationalists and storytellers have no qualms retelling tales, no matter the audience or forum. Every retelling is an opportunity to relive the events and tailor the details and embellishments to suit those listening.

I need to change my perspective on the matter. It should feel weird to recount the story to just one person or in just one place. An anecdote isn't a secret and every retelling isn't a betrayal, but a fresh chance to share and connect with people, tell a better story and be a better storyteller.